The Curious Autodidact

July 19, 2008

Junk Mail B Gone!

Filed under: environmental ideas, helpful hints — honilima @ 7:57 am

Take a moment today to think about the last walk you had in a shaded forest on a hot day or the forest canopy on a rainy day when you stayed dry. Now think about how full your recycle bin can be and what comes in your mailbox each day or week.

Here are things that you can do to stop some of the junk mail, additionally you can send back the address pages from the mail you do not want to get. It takes vigilance but you will feel so much better once you aren’t contributing as much to environmental degradation.

Rid your mailbox of unwanted catalogs: http://www.catalogchoice.org/

Get off the junk mail lists including getting off the credit card offer lists: https://www.dmachoice.org/MPS/proto1.php

Center for Media and Democracy: PR Watch article: http://www.prwatch.org/node/7224

June 15, 2008

Ten Tips for Saving Money on a Funeral

Filed under: end of life, helpful hints, money saving ideas, nonprofit — honilima @ 12:21 am

Ten Tips for Saving Money on a Funeral

from the Funeral Consumer’s Alliance (http://www.funerals.org/)

1. Talk about funerals with family members ahead of time so they all will know your wishes and you will know theirs-. If your plans are mentioned only in a will, the will may not be read until long after other ar-rangements have been made. If Mom had always said she want-ed something “simple” and you aren’t sure what she meant, you may end up purchasing a great deal more than something truly “simple.” Or perhaps Mom told everyone what kind of funeral she wanted, but she had no idea that it would cost far more than anyone could afford.

2. Price shop by phone or in person. Price-shopping can save you thousands of dollars. The f uneral home in your neighborhood may be three times as expensive as one across town. By law, funeral homes have to give you prices over the phone, or hand you a General Price List when you start talking about prices at the funeral home. If the GPL shows that caskets begin at $595, did you ask to see one if it was not on display?

3. Only buy what you want. If you are shopping for a funeral at the time of death take a friend with you, someone who will help you be sure you buy only what you want. Don’t buy more than you intended out of guilt. People often think that how much they spend is a demonstration of how much they love someone. Don’t buy more because of fears of being “different” or “cheap” or worries about “What people will think?” Fu-neral sales litera-ture today commonly refers to a “traditional” funeral package (meaning elaborate and a good profit margin for the mortician), with one funeral often looking just like the next. Enjoy making your own traditions. A unique and personalized memo-rial observance is what others will remember. Don’t feel obligated to put on a big “show” when the deceased has been prominent dur-ing his or her lif etime. For the cremation of the author of The American Way of Death, Jessica Mitford’s family spent just under $500. Shortly thereafter, they hosted a grand memorial gathering. It was very much in keeping with Jessica’s disdain of lavish fu-neral mer-chandise but love of a good party

4. Make your own or buy online. You can find caskets or kits on line for a fraction of the retail price. It is illegal for a mortuary to charge a “handling fee” for using a casket obtained elsewhere. Or, choose a “minimum container” from the mortuary and drape it with attractive material, a handmade quilt, or a flag. Most people know what’s involved in growing a head of lettuce or a few tomatoes and would think $10 each was an outrageous price; they probably would stop buying them. Few consumers realize that caskets may be marked up 300500% or more. A casket that is listed for $1,295 at the funeral home might wholesale for only $325. That same casket is probably available from a casket retailer for $650.

5. Consider the “direct burial” or “immediate cremation” packages. These plans do not necessitate buying grand caskets, embalming, cosmetic touchups, or funeral services and processions. Cemetery space for cremated remains is generally - but not always - less expensive than the space needed for a body burial. Cremated remains can be buried/scattered almost wherever you choose. Also, if you choose one of these options, you don’t need to use a local funeral home which might cost twice as much as the one in the next town.

6. Plan a memorial service without the body present. In that case, there would be no need for embalming, a fancy casket, or expensive transporting of the body back and forth. Private family visitation and “goodbyes” can occur in the hospital or home, before you call a funeral director. Use a church, park, or community center for the memorial service without attending funeral home staff. Again, with this option, you do not have to use a local funeral home.

7. Skip embalming. Embalming is not routinely required by law. Some circumstances may precipitate the need for embalming, but in no state is it necessary when burial or cremation is planned within a day or so.

8. Consider body donation to a medical school. In some areas, there may be no cost to the family whatsoever. In other circumstances, the cost of transporting the body may be the only cost. Generally cremated remains are returned to the family within a year or two.

9. Some cemeteries may require a grave liner or vault, but not all. There is no state law that does. If you prefer body burial, ask for a “grave liner” rather than a “coffin vault” at a fraction of the price. And again, be sure to shop around. The “outer burial container” is a way for morticians to increase their income and is an added burden on your funeral finances. With prices as much or more than caskets, remember that it is just a boxforthebox which gets quickly covered by the cemetery lawn.

10. Consider handling all arrangements without using a mortuary. Most people also don’t know that in the majority of states a family or church group may handle a death without the use of a funeral home and many families have found it loving and therapeutic. The book, Caring for the Dead: Your Final Act of Love, gives a great deal of state specific practical information, and the PBS documentary, A Family Undertaking follows the stories of several families. Both are invaluable resources for anyone choosing this meaningful way to say goodbye.

And, a bonus tip: Join your local Funeral Consumers Alliance. Some have contracts with local funeral homes for services at a reduced price for members. Some have done a price survey and have done the priceshopping for you already. Most will refer you to an ethical funeral home. There are reciprocal benefits if you move to or die in another state. Supporting an Alliance will help to keep this consumer information available for future generations, and the membership contribution is modest.

Remember: Funeral directors are business people who deserve to be paid for what they do. However, it is your job, as a funeral consumer, to be welleducated about your funeral choices, to determine the kind of funeral or memorial service that meets the needs of your family, and to locate an ethicallypriced facility that will honor your choices with caring and dignity.

June 3, 2008

Grow a Forest: Turn off the Junk Mail

Filed under: environmental ideas, helpful hints — honilima @ 12:20 am

Two simple steps to take to stop unwanted junk mail is to register at Catalog Choice http://www.catalogchoice.org/ and then limited the so called “pre-screened” offers of credit and insurance base on the information they get from your credit report by opting out, call 1-888-567-8688 and tell them you don’t want anyone to have access to your credit report without your permission.

May 21, 2008

Things you can do Today to Help Save the Earth

Filed under: environmental ideas, helpful hints — honilima @ 12:18 am

  • Walk instead of drive
  • Buy from the bulk bins at the grocery store
  • Bring your own bag when you shop
  • Turn off the TV
  • Begin to eat vegetarian
  • Don’t have children
  • Plant some vegetables
  • Work to stop the flow of junk mail
  • Use your computer printer sparingly
  • Become aware of your water use
  • Use contraception early and often
  • May 19, 2008

    Simple Ways to Volunteer Your Time

    Filed under: cool internet stuff, helpful hints, nonprofit — honilima @ 8:15 pm

    Think that you are too busy to volunteer your time? Consider how many older people live in your neighborhood who would value a visit or a homemade something brought to brighten their day. Send a funny cartoon to someone who is housebound. Write a letter to someone who is incarcerated, many of whom haven’t heard from their family in years. These simple things will brighten someone’s day who is compromised and make you feel good too.

    If you have regular time available go on-line and get matched!

    http://www.volunteermatch.org/

    girls with hula hoops

    May 18, 2008

    New Postal Rates

    Filed under: helpful hints — honilima @ 12:44 am
    On May 12 we will adjust prices for mailing services - First-Class Mail, Standard Mail, Periodicals, Package Services, and Special Services. The average increase by class of mail is at or below the rate of inflation as measured by the Consumer Price Index.

    A First-Class Mail stamp will be 42¢. Customers can continue to use the Forever Stamps that they purchased prior to May 12 at 41¢, even after the price change. We will have 5 billion Forever Stamps in stock to meet increased demand before the price change. Forever Stamps are widely available through Post Offices, Contract Postal Units, consignment locations, Automated Postage Centers, vending, and at The Postal Store®. We also will have a 62¢ stamp available shortly after May 12 for 1-ounce nonmachinable First-Class Mail letters, such as square greeting cards.

    Pricing highlights:

    No change in the First-Class Mail single-piece additional-ounce price.
    Lower additional-ounce price for presorted First-Class Mail letters.
    Lower pound price for Standard Mail saturation and high-density flats.
    Shape-based pricing for First-Class Mail International letters, flats, and parcels.
    First-Class Mail International price groups expand from five to nine groups.

    Select prices:

    First-Class Mail letter (1 oz.) $0.42
    First-Class Mail letter (2 oz.) $0.59
    Postcard $0.27
    First-Class Mail large envelope (2 oz.) $1.00
    Certified Mail $2.70
    First-Class Mail International to Canada and Mexico (1 oz.) $0.72
    First-Class Mail International to all other countries (1 oz.) $0.94

    May 15, 2008

    Leisure Matters from the New York Times

    Filed under: helpful hints — honilima @ 2:19 am

    May 5, 2008 Shifting Careers

    Why Leisure Matters in a Busy World

    By MARCI ALBOHER

    A few months ago, I spoke with a Canadian economist, Linda Nazareth, about her prediction that we are entering an age governed by changes in leisure patterns. We talked then about the ways that workplaces and businesses will evolve to accommodate and capitalize on the 77 million baby boomers who will, in increasing numbers, have excess time on their hands.

    Suddenly, I started hearing about other aspects of the leisure field, an area I previously knew little about. Recently, I came across the work of Alison Link, whose work with people who are incarcerated or formerly incarcerated was described in a column by Samuel G. Freedman in The New York Times in 2006. Though Ms. Link works primarily with at-risk populations, she says that we can all improve our quality of life by paying more attention to leisure habits. I had a series of telephone calls and e-mail exchanges with Ms. Link, and the following is an edited version of those exchanges:

    Q. How do you define leisure?

    A. Believe it or not, the field of leisure studies is a big area of academic study. Leisure has many different definitions - some involving time, some relating to an activity being done, some relating to state of mind. Personally, I am most at leisure when I feel free, present and integrated. I like this definition for myself because it allows me to experience leisure at any moment, even in just a few minutes. Leisure can happen when we are in various states: artistic or creative, physical, intellectual, social, spiritual, learning new things, volunteering, active, passive, or as a spectator or participant. One can be emotionally connected and engaged or not. And we can even have leisure at work and be more productive, healthy and creative.

    Q. Can you give some examples of positive uses of leisure?

    A. I hesitate to be more specific because I prefer to guide people as they figure it out for themselves. I ask people to look at the things that are most fulfilling to them and that make them feel like they are at their best. So I ask questions like, “What would you like to be doing in your life you are not doing now?” or “What would you like to do better or learn more about?” It’s a process, and it’s different for each person. I would never suggest that someone take a course to get started because that might feel like work to them.

    Here’s an example of a work situation: one of my clients works in television, and her life is filled with stress during her filming season. In those periods, she works six days a week and has little energy for herself, her boyfriend and others in her life. She came to me in one of those stretches, in which she was so overwhelmed that she was waking up each morning just hoping to get through the day. It was affecting both her workday and the limited time she had outside of work.

    Eventually, she said, she might make a big lifestyle change. But until she could do that we worked together on how she could add small bits of leisure into her days during those intense times. We were looking for small changes, the kinds of things she could do in 10 or 15 minutes. She created a list: she could call a friend who would make her laugh, take a walk to get coffee, sit for a few minutes in the park, even walk to and from work. Once she started to add some of these small bits of leisure to her life, she felt more free and happy at work, and she saw changes in her life outside of work, especially in how she interacted with others.

    Q. Why should we care about our relationship to leisure?

    A. Too often, leisure time that is not used in a satisfying way turns into idle time, or is used to do a single thing to excess (like overeating, or getting into family quarrels). It can even turn negative, which is what happens often in the cases substance use, delinquency and criminal activity. Also, wouldn’t it be great if we didn’t define ourselves by our work? It should be just as valid to define ourselves by our leisure.

    Q. A lot of your academic and field work focuses on at-risk, incarcerated and post-incarcerated populations. Why is leisure so significant for these populations?

    A. Many people in at-risk populations have a lot of stress, pressures, risk-taking behavior, boredom and/or idle time. They may have, or perceive that they have, limited options or resources.

    There is an opportunity to use leisure in a negative way while living on the street but also while in prison. Approximately 95 percent of people who are incarcerated in the United States are released and return to society at some point. This transition from incarceration to a life free from both crime and incarceration is a challenge for the more than 10 million people in the United States returning to society each year. Out of the more than 650,000 people returning from prison annually into the community, two-thirds are rearrested and half are reincarcerated. This affects not only these individuals’ lives but also those of their families, children, communities and society.

    So equipping people with the ability to make more positive use of their leisure time while in prison and also once released is a holistic approach that helps empower the whole person, reduce the negative use of leisure and contribute to reducing recidivism.

    Q. What does all this have to do with those of us whose lives have nothing to do with correctional facilities or addiction?

    A. Whenever I conduct workshops with any group, I ask people how free they feel and to rate themselves on a scale of 0 to 100. The responses are usually about the same whether I am talking to people in a correctional facility or at a workplace. I have learned firsthand that some people feel free while behind bars (and use their time in a positive way), yet others feel “locked up” while living in society.

    One thing I learned from working with incarcerated populations is that having a good understanding of leisure and implementing it can be a coping skill, especially through transitions. Prison re-entry to society is a major transition in one’s life. However, we all experience transitions whether big or small. Sometimes we have control of them and other times we don’t.

    Waking up every day is a new transition. Every minute is a transition. Taking a new job, retiring, going to school, finishing school, relocating, recovering from an illness, bereavement, having a new baby are just some of the transitions we encounter and there is an unknown associated with them. A satisfying leisure life can help an individual take control of part of that unknown. It also gives the opportunity for choice, which is often limited in other aspects of our lives, like during our work.

    Improving our relationship with leisure can also reduce job stress, improve work-related skills, increase tolerance and understanding and enhance decision-making

    Q. So how do you explain all those people who don’t feel free in their lives?

    A. Few of us really think about or plan for leisure. We think we should just go with the flow, but too often we end up feeling stressed, overwhelmed and unfulfilled. We need to plan for leisure - perhaps by doing one small thing every day, identifying long- and short-term leisure goals, putting enjoyable activities on the calendar - like we do other aspects of life. But before people start moving up leisure on the priority list, they need to appreciate and recognize the value and benefits of leisure, even when they have constraints (that may be internal or external). We all have obligations and other constraints that inhibit us from engaging in leisure that range from guilt to time or financial constraints. Yet the personal benefits and collective benefits short term and long term are worthwhile.

    Q. So what happens when an individual goes for an extended period of time without leisure?

    A. You tell me. Have you ever been burned out, depressed or overwhelmed, had stress manifest physically? Mind and body connect you know. And then think of the effect on not only you but how it affects others.


    May 12, 2008

    The Quest for Simple Inexpensive & Local Organic Salad Greens–YUM

    Filed under: environmental ideas, helpful hints, kitchen tips — honilima @ 11:11 pm

    May 10, 2007 : In the Garden: from the New York Times

    It Takes a Hammer to Grow This Salad

    By ANNE RAVER

    IF you love fresh greens, there is no reason not to grow them yourself, even if you have only a tiny terrace or handkerchief lawn.

    When Jon Traunfeld, a regional specialist for the University of Maryland Cooperative Extension, showed me his homemade salad table, I wanted one, and I wanted to put it right outside my kitchen door. It has a whole different appeal - less work! proximity! - than my big vegetable garden.

    Essentially, it is a garden on wheels that you can move around, into sun or shade, a big benefit when the sun gets too hot for spinach. It’s waist-high, so people with creaky knees or bad backs can just stand there and pick a few leaves for dinner. And it’s a cinch to water and weed (not like that jungle I call my kitchen garden.)

    “It also means the groundhogs and the rabbits aren’t going to bother you,” Mr. Traunfeld said, standing by his leafy table, which sits on a terrace at the extension service’s Home and Garden Information Center in Ellicott City, Md. “Though, we have two deer trapped inside our fence. If they find this, we’re sunk.”

    The salad table is basically a 3-inch-deep, 11-square-foot planting box on legs. It has a hardware-cloth bottom, lined with window screening, so that water can drain but soil mix stays put. The table can be lifted by two people; better yet, if you put casters on the legs it can be rolled.

    Mr. Traunfeld invented his table about a year and a half ago, after seeing something similar at an organic farm in Virginia. He has long understood the joys of fresh greens: when it’s too cold outside, he grows them under fluorescent lights in his basement.

    He has been taking his salad table on the road to schools and community groups to show how easy it is to grow nutritious food right outside the door.

    Last year he grew greens in full sunlight during spring and fall. In the heat of the summer he pulled the tables back into the shade. Try doing that with your vegetable garden.

    “Shade isn’t a bad thing for greens, especially in the summer,” Mr. Traunfeld said. “They don’t really need direct sunlight.” In fact, in the heat of August you can grow lettuces and other salad greens in full shade. Just push that table back into the light come September.

    Lettuces, arugula, bok choy, mustards and many other greens are all shallow-rooted vegetables that can thrive, believe it or not, in three inches of potting soil, especially if it’s enriched with compost. Mr. Traunfeld plants seeds of Russian kale, mizuna (a tangy Japanese green) and colorful lettuces like speckled trout, whose chartreuse leaves are splotched with maroon, and merlot, a ruffled red. Heat-resistant varieties, like oakleaf, deer tongue and Jericho, a romaine developed in Israel, are especially suited to a shallow box.

    He is also growing purslane and amaranth, as well as basil and parsley; anything, in other words, that grows fast and easily in shallow soil. The greens sprout quickly in such loose soil, and will no doubt need to be thinned, in which case those little leaves may just be rinsed and tossed into a salad. As leaves mature, Mr. Traunfeld cuts them low to the base, then lets them grow again for a second cutting - the cut-and-come-again method - in a few weeks.

    “You can only do that twice though, and it’s time to take them out,” Mr. Traunfeld said. “All of these plants have a life cycle, so after 60 or 70 days, they’re just going to get bitter.”

    He fertilizes every two weeks with a liquid fertilizer, or relies on a slow-release fertilizer like Osmocote in the planting mix.

    Although his planting box is large, a small one could be placed just about anywhere, including a narrow apartment balcony.

    When I commented on how beautifully simple all this was, and wondered why no one had thought of this before, Mr. Traunfeld just laughed.

    “Every time I teach this workshop, somebody says, my grandmother used to take old drawers out of chests that were going to get junked, and she grew plants, either spring onions or salad greens, in a drawer,” he said. “So it’s nothing new. We’re just re-packaging it.”

    Mr. Traunfeld is also recycling another ubiquitous item: the five-gallon white plastic bucket used for bulk food, which bakeries, delis and restaurants are happy to give away. Instead of just drilling holes in the bottom and filling with compost and potting soil - perfect for tomato plants with deep roots - Mr. Traunfeld turns them into self-watering containers.

    It’s not complicated; just a series of trimming this, and sawing that, and drilling holes here and there. Directions for the self-watering container can be found at  http://www.hgic.umd.edu/_media/documents/hg601.pdf

    For those who want to try his movable garden, the table and trays are simple to make out of untreated framing lumber, a bit of wire mesh and window screening, and some nails, wood screws and staples. Find a handsaw, hammer and drill and you’re all set. Directions can be found at hgic.umd.edu, under online publications, on growing greens with salad tables and salad boxes. The table costs about $35 to make; the tray, $8.

    Mr. Traunfeld is finding that these tables are not only inspiring people to grow fresh food; they are also generating an interest in basic carpentry skills.

    Since soil is too heavy and dense for these salad tables, it’s better to use a lightweight, fertile mix, in which seeds can easily germinate. Mr. Traunfeld suggested half compost, half soilless mix. But make sure both are of a good quality. You could also use pure compost, if you make it yourself, or have a reliable source. Soilless mix dries quickly in the sun; you may have to water as often as twice a day.

    If you want more texture in your salad, space plants about three to four inches apart, he advised. This is a good method for mustard greens, collards and chard.

    “Then the mid-ribs develop and you get a little more crunch in your salad,” he said. And you can just pick individual leaves, rather than cutting little soft ones with scissors.

    These crunchy, bigger leaves are also less likely to wilt when tossed with an acid dressing made with vinegar or lemon.

    Hand me the olive oil, please. Or a hammer, so that I can start on one of these tables.

    May 6, 2008

    A Few Web Sites You Want to Know about

    Filed under: cool internet stuff, environmental ideas, helpful hints — honilima @ 11:18 pm

    Government DO NOT CALL LIST: https://www.donotcall.gov/

    Rid your mailbox of unwanted catalogs: http://www.catalogchoice.org/

    Get off the junk mail lists including getting off the credit card offer lists: https://www.dmachoice.org/MPS/proto1.php

    How to find a human on a customer service call: http://www.nophonetrees.com/

    Is that famous person dead or alive? http://www.deadoraliveinfo.com/

    To believe or not believe that urban legend sent via the internet no doubt: http://www.snopes.com/

    May 4, 2008

    To Buy Organic or Non-organic?

    Filed under: environmental ideas, helpful hints, kitchen tips — honilima @ 9:21 am

    If you have access to local foods and the money to pay for organic consider yourself fortunate. If you watch your grocery dollars and want to know what should be absolutely bought organic I offer this list:

    • PEACHES
    • APPLES
    • CELERY
    • NECTARINES
    • STRAWBERRIES
    • CHERRIES
    • LETTUCE
    • GRAPES
    • PEARS
    • SPINACH
    • POTATOES
    • BELL PEPPERS

    http://www.foodnews.org/walletguide.php

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